Science of The "What the Hell Effect"...And Why it's Ruining Your ProgressApr 10, 2020
Giving in to temptation makes you feel bad
...which then motivates you to do something to feel better
...and what’s the cheapest, fastest way to feel better?
❌ Often the very thing you feel bad about.
“Just a small handful of cereal”
❌ Turns into the bottom of the box.
“Just a little more wine”
❌ And you find yourself not realizing you’ve had 4 more glasses than intended.
“I already messed up, so what the hell - might as well really enjoy myself.”
Sound familiar? 🤨
𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴: 𝗚𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗿𝘂𝗶𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂.
𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗺𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁.
𝗦𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗴𝘂𝗶𝗹𝘁.
𝗟𝗼𝘀𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗹 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗼𝗽𝗲.
Give in ➡️ Go all out ➡️ Feel terrible ➡️ Seek comfort ➡️ Give in ➡️ REPEAT
This cycle extremely common. Especially for those following restrictive practices.
The cycle breaking solution? According to the research?
🌟More self-awareness & self-compassion.
^ which jussssst so happens to be how we do it at KJO coaching 😏
Y’all know I love some thought provoking, change-based Qs...
Here’s some you can work through right now:
❓How do you handle self control failures?
❓Do you use it as a chance to indulge further?
❓Do you see it as an indication that you’ll never change & something must be wrong with you?
(*cough* fixed mindset *cough*)
❓Think of a time you’ve successfully exerted self-control in any situation. What thoughts did you bring to mind? How did it feel?