
The Domino Effect
Jul 29, 2020I know this has happened to you.โฃ
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It’s happened to all of us. โฃ
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Whether it’s a “oh damn, didn’t mean to finish the whole bag...”โฃ
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Or a full out binge.โฃ
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This might be something you struggle with more chronically or maybe just an accidental lapse in control.โฃ
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Regardless, understanding that it’s not just “something that happens” but is actually a series of events can help you better evaluate the situationโฃ
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...and put you in a better position to avoid feeling like ๐ฉโฃ
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1๏ธโฃ There’s typically a trigger that gets this process started, some common ones are: โฃ
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Stress, negative life events, anxious feelings, social pressure, and loneliness.โฃ
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2๏ธโฃ This trigger leads you to start ponderimg those Oreos...โฃ
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๐ญ “this would be tasty and make me feel better”โฃ
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and a quick hit of dopamine in your brain ๐ง promising you reward (relief from negative feelings being the *promised* reward here)โฃ
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3๏ธโฃ With the dopamine and convincing thoughts flowing, your desire for instant gratification gets stronger...โฃ
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4๏ธโฃ ...and your self control mechanisms get turned offโฃ
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**self control and instant gratification quite literally “live” in different parts of your brainโฃ
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5๏ธโฃ “wait, did I really just eat 3 rows of Oreos?”โฃ
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6๏ธโฃ ๐ฃ๐๐๐ฅบโฃ
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A lack of awareness will turn this process into a vicious cycle real quick.โฃ
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๐ข๐ณ๐๐ฒ๐ป ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐๐ฟ๐ป ๐๐ผ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป ๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ฝ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐ ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ.โฃ
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Instead, bring awareness to this.โฃ
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This is not a comfortable thing to recognize and pick apart.โฃ
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But remember:โฃ
discomfort breeds growth ๐ฑโฃ
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Where can you interrupt the domino effect?โฃ
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How will you do it?โฃ